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Are You Making Room For Love?

boundaries feminine energy relationships Mar 25, 2024

Making Room for Love: Are You Blocking Your Own Happiness?

Hey there, loves! Dr. Nicole here, diving deep into a topic close to all our hearts: love. We all crave connection, that feeling of being seen, understood, and cherished. But sometimes, even when we shout our desires from the rooftops, love seems to elude us. Why? Often, it's because we haven't truly made room for it in our lives. This is especially true for the amazing women whom I hear from all the time!

The Energy of Attraction: Are You a Beacon or a Blockade?

We talk a lot about boundaries, communication, and finding the "perfect" partner. But what about the unseen force – our energy? Our energy speaks volumes, even before we utter a word. Saying you want love while constantly dwelling on negativity is like trying to light a fire with a wet match.

Single Ladies: Let Go of the Dating Drama

Are you perpetually swiping left and drowning your friends in tales of dating woe? Listen, venting can be healthy, but if negativity becomes your anthem, you're pushing love away. Shift your focus! Instead of dwelling on bad experiences, envision the kind of love you desire. Let your excitement and positive energy radiate – you'll attract what you project!

Married Marvels: The Power of Self-Reflection

Are you constantly pointing fingers and keeping a running scorecard of your partner's flaws? This creates a toxic environment that suffocates love. Take a deep breath and step into the mirror. Become the positive change you wish to see in your relationship. Are there areas where you can show more appreciation or practice better communication?

Who Are You Entertaining? It's About Choice, Not Just Chance

This is a powerful concept! It's not just about who you attract, but who you choose to give your energy to. Are you settling for negativity in the form of toxic friends or lingering past relationships? Or are you raising your standards for the kind of love you deserve?

Making Room for Love: A Practical Guide

Here's the good news: love is a choice, and you have the power to cultivate it in your life. Here are some actionable steps to get you started:

  • Cultivate a positive outlook: Focus on gratitude and the good things in your life.
  • Take responsibility for your own happiness: You can't control others, but you can control your own thoughts and actions.
  • Choose to focus on the good: Look for the positive qualities in yourself and others.
  • Elevate your standards: Don't settle for anything less than the love you deserve.

Remember, creating a love-filled life is a journey, not a destination. By making these shifts and continuously reflecting on your energy, you'll be well on your way to attracting and creating the love you desire. 

Stay tuned for more love lessons coming your way! In the meantime, share your thoughts in the comments below – how are YOU making room for love in your life?

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